Art of Seduction: The Top 12 Ways To Pick Up Gay/Bisexual Men of Color
Â Letâs face it, modern masculine gay men of color have been programmed to think that the only way to meet other Gay men for dating is online on sex hookup sites. There are many masculine men (lik…
I have learned that other than being a top, bottom, or versatile sexual oriented male, what makes a man a man is one who can face his fears, rejection, embrace confidence and deal with stigmas that face men of color . Accept the fact that Gay men are men first and men are more visual then women, that means men are more superficial; accept that some men will over look you because they seek things that they may not possess ( Nice Body, Money, Status, etc ); that you must focus on the most important characteristics of a future partner and his sexual endowment shouldn’t top the list. Look at the relationships he has with his family, friends and business partners; pay attention to how he manages money; his addictions; his temper, patience, integrity and the way he keeps his home and personal hygiene; his relationship with religion and how he communicates with the public, etc.
If your just looking to get layed; pay close attention to how sexually active he is; how many times he text in front of you or allow calls to interrupt one on one time as these are signs of a high risk sexual partner; take note on the last time he was tested. If he is horny and wants to chill pay attention to or ask when the last time he had sex. Sex with more than 1 person per 3 months is extremely risky not just because of HIV but other diseases, some disease such as Hepatitis and Herpes that have no cure and HPV if left untreated can turn into cancer ( Throat cancer, etc ) . Don’t let your Pieces/JumpOff/ChillingPartner see or be around your friends or family; come to your place if you never been to theirs; lay in your bed if its just a hook up but fuck them on the floor or at a hotel. Sex should just happen naturally, if he is hard up for sex then that could be a bad sign. Always shower with your partner before sex as you don’t know what they might have done before they came to you. Avoid kissing, oral sex, semen/cum, blood ( flossing or brushing before kissing or oral sex ).